Understanding Your Feline Friend: The Best Places to Pet and Scratch Your Cat

Welcome to the Real Pet Store! As fellow cat enthusiasts, we understand that every cat has it's unique personality and preferences. Whether your cat is one for toys, catnip, hidey-holes or an extra treat or two, there's nothing better than giving them some personal love and cuddles.

One thing that most cats have in common is their love for being petted and scratched in just the right spots. Knowing where your cat enjoys being touched can strengthen your bond and ensure they feel loved and comfortable. Let’s explore the top places cats love to be scratched and petted, and how to approach cats without causing stress or anxiety. 

1. The Chin and Jawline - one of the ultimate sweet spots for many cats is under the chin and along the jawline. Gentle scratches in these areas can send your cat into a state of bliss. The scent glands located here also mean that when your cat enjoys these scratches, they’re marking you with their scent and showing their affection.

2. Behind the Ears - behind the ears is another favourite spot for many cats. Soft, gentle strokes and scratches here can make your cat purr with delight. It’s a tender area that often feels good to them, especially if they trust you.

3. The Cheeks - cheek rubs are incredibly popular with cats; they have scent glands on their cheeks, and when you rub them, it not only feels good but also mixes your scents, reinforcing the bond between you and your cat.

4. Along the Back - most cats enjoy long, slow strokes from their head down to the base of their tail. This can be very soothing and comforting. However, be mindful of your cat’s body language (see body language tips below), as some cats might get overstimulated if petted for too long.

5. The Base of the Tail - the area at the base of the tail is another spot where cats often enjoy a good scratch. Not only does petting them here mimic the grooming behaviour of their mother when they were kittens, but this area can be particularly sensitive. This is because this spot is home to lots of nerve endings and can stimulate pleasure when touched, so gentle, small scratches are usually best. Your cat may raise their rear end towards you, signalling trust and openness towards you. 

6. The Belly (Proceed with Caution) - the belly is a highly sensitive area for cats. While some cats love having their belly rubbed, many do not. Always approach this area with caution and respect your cat’s boundaries. If they expose their belly to you, it’s often a sign of trust, but it doesn’t always mean they want you to touch it.

Incorporating Cat Scratching Posts - scratching their coats and claws is a natural behaviour for cats, and having scratching posts around your home is essential for their wellbeing. You can place scratching post in areas they like to relax as cats usually scratch upon waking. Having a variety of materials acting as scratching posts or boards, and sprinkling catnip over them can encourage your cat to use these posts rather than your furniture! 

Body language tips:

• Watch for Positive Signals: Purring, kneading, and leaning into your hand are signs your cat is enjoying the petting.

• Respect Boundaries: If your cat moves away, flattens their ears, or swishes their tail, they might be feeling overstimulated or anxious. Give them some space.

• Stay Calm and Gentle: Cats appreciate calm, gentle touches. Sudden movements can startle them.

Understanding where and how your cat likes to be petted can enhance your relationship and keep your feline friend happy and content. At the Real Pet Store, we’re here to help you with all your pet care needs, from treats and toys to expert advice on caring for your furry companions.